MYTH #1: It's only abuse if it's violent.

Fact: Physical abuse is just one type of child abuse. Neglect and emotional abuse can be just as damaging, and since they are more subtle, others are less likely to intervene.

(quoted from http://www.helpguide.org/mental/child_abuse_physical_emotional_sexual_neglect.htm, Myths and facts about child abuse and neglect)

MYTH #2: Only bad people abuse their children.

Fact: While it's easy to say that only "bad people" abuse their children, it's not always so black and white. Not all abusers are intentionally harming their children. Many have been victims of abuse themselves, and don’t know any other way to parent. Others may be struggling with mental health issues or a substance abuse problem.

(quoted from http://www.helpguide.org/mental/child_abuse_physical_emotional_sexual_neglect.htm, Myths and facts about child abuse and neglect)